After 35 years of living together, my husband decided to leave me. What should I do? I am 63 years old

After 35 years together, my husband decided to leave me 🤯💔 What should I do? 🤷‍♀️ I am already 63 years old. I tell my story in the article👇👇

The children decided to spend New Year holidays with their friends and went away. My husband said that he had to go to his parents’ grave. I believed it and he went.

A week later, he never came home. He came home on the eighth day and said he wanted a divorce. He stated that there was a man in the place he was going who would cure him. It turned out that a woman he loved 40 years ago had recently found him through social media. She lives in the same town my husband and his sister are from. So, he decided to go to see her, telling me he wanted to visit his sister and visit his parents’ grave.

He had been at her place for a few days, probably complaining about life with me. She promised him that she would share her triplet with him, give him her car and cure him of everything! In return, all she wanted was a piece of paper to divorce us. He told me all this himself and for a few more hours told me about Chinese folk medicine, which can cure all diseases and all the secrets of this medicine owns his former-new love.

Of course, I did not want to give him a divorce so easily. All the more so that he just brazenly wanted to get it, without thinking about my feelings. But he turned out to be more nasty – he himself filed a petition for divorce and division of property in court. Soon I was summoned for questioning.

I didn’t expect him to turn out to be such a bastard. Husband wrote in the statement that we have already 15 years have no marital relations, and the last 5 years we even have a separate household. I wrote back that I don’t agree with all of this.

I have a cat scratching at my heart.

Naturally, I understand that the spouse in his old age wanted an adventure. But who is this 67-year-old ‘fairy’ who decided to take someone else’s husband out of the family?! Maybe she put something in my husband’s tea. She doesn’t even mind that he drinks 100 grams every day, because she needs to show that she’s on his side. I’m the bad one, scolding him, forbidding him to drink so much with one kidney.

Several times I asked him to come to his senses, but nothing helps.

What am I supposed to do? We have already lived in a place for 35 years, and he is like an integral part of me.

I don’t know what to do, let him go or somehow influence him through the kids….